Peace Corps · Training

Surprises


View from an airplane window of a wing slicing through towering white clouds

Mongolia is full of surprises, some happy and some sad, but almost all of them very quick. Take, for example, Mike who is an M18 and one of the coolest Peace Corps Volunteers I have met in Mongolia. He greeted us when we first arrived in country, offered great advice to me and a couple of other Volunteers as we ate our first dinner in Darkhan at the Texas restaurant (which for the record has pretty much nothing to do with Texas), and always smiled and was quick to pat you on the back to let you know that he was excited for you and happy that you were here in Mongolia. One day we are playing frisbee and talking about all his plans this upcoming year, and literally the next day we are saying “goodbye.” His flight back to America was one week later. Mike is a married Volunteer and he and his wife found out, later that afternoon, that they were pregnant. As per Peace Corps policy, all married Volunteers expecting a child are immediately sent home so that they can receive the best health care in a safe environment. It’s great for the Volunteers, but an emotional roller coaster I can only imagine. Needless to say, I told Mike that I really admired his personality and hoped to treat next year’s incoming Volunteers as great as he treated me. I also told him that I would keep up with he and his wife as they share updates on their blog about their pregnancy and future baby.

If that’s not enough to show you how quickly things can happen here, take Erica, my good friend and fellow M19 Volunteer. In just over one month, we have watched LOST together, ridden in meeker buses more times than we can count, traveled far and wide for internet in the city, taken taxis with extremely shady characters, walked back and forth from town which is an hour each way, talked about crazy things until late into the night, been there for each other when the going got tough and the drama got tougher and then today said “goodbye” because Erica is heading home to America tomorrow to be with her family. Some things are more important than Peace Corps, and family is one of them. After having talked with her family back home and thought over the decision for some time, Erica called our Peace Corps staff today and they had her plane ticket purchased for the next morning. They move quick here. We all gathered up at Erica’s house, hugged and said our goodbyes to her. It’s only been a month and a half, but it’s amazing to me how much we all love her. We are going to miss her very much and we hope to see her again very soon. You hear that Erica?

A Volunteer in a denim cap and glasses puckers her lips at the camera in front of a weathered wooden house in golden evening light
About a dozen Volunteers crowd together in a dirt yard beside a wooden fence, hugging and mugging for the camera with mock-shocked faces
Two Volunteers hold the ends of a giant yellow slingshot while a third pulls it back, in a dirt lot beside a tall wooden fence with mountains in the distance
A crouching Volunteer pulls back the pouch of a yellow slingshot held by two friends on open steppe, with cattle grazing behind them
Three Volunteers talk on a wide dirt road in front of a log house and wooden fences, with green hills behind them
Three Volunteers lean over the back of a couch in a room with a red patterned carpet hanging on the wall and an inflatable globe on a shelf
A man in a blue shirt and a woman in glasses talk side by side in a minibus while a young passenger peeks between the seats behind them
A woman in glasses grins wide at the camera from a minibus seat, with a Mongolian woman sitting behind her
A man in a blue shirt tilts his head toward a woman in glasses and a Mizzou T-shirt who bares her teeth in a mock grimace, in the back seat of a minibus